Trauma Recovery Coaching
Healing’s messy—let’s actually talk about it!
Trauma impacts everyone, but we all handle it differently. There are people who shutdown, avoid, panic, or become enmeshed and codependent on others. These are all coping skills of people who have been touched by trauma that they still carry with them.
I like to name what most people skip over; the hard, tangled, in-between parts of healing. You’ll find tools here for reclaiming your emotional truth, setting boundaries that actually feel honest, and learning how to trust yourself again… even if no one ever showed you how.
Whether you’re navigating trauma, untangling codependency, or just trying to stay human in a world that keeps asking you to perform, you’re not alone here.
Let’s stop pretending.
Let’s start unpacking.
What is Trauma Recovery Coaching?
Trauma recovery coaching is about helping you come back to yourself, learning what’s been driving you, what you’ve had to carry, and how to move through it with clarity instead of shame.
This work is for people who
feel like they don’t understand their own motivations.
Are tired of holding it all together, but don’t know how to let go without falling apart.
Anyone who’s starting to realize that survival mode might not be the only way.
You don’t need to have it all figured out. You don’t need to have years of therapy behind you. You just need to be willing to get curious about what’s going on underneath the surface.
I’m not here to tell you who you are. I’m here to help you see yourself more clearly.
The Checklist of Understanding Self
Patterns:
The emotional habits and survival loops you fall into without realizing it.
Like apologizing when you're not wrong, over-explaining your needs, or shutting down when something feels too big.
Boundaries
Honest communication about what works for you and what doesn’t without guilt or punishment.
Not walls, not ultimatums. Just clarity. “This is what I can offer. This is what I can’t.”
Nervous System Signals
The physical cues your body sends when it feels safe, unsafe, overwhelmed, or disconnected.
Racing thoughts, jaw tension, fawning, going numb, needing to escape—even if nothing “bad” is happening.
Emotional Language
The ability to name what you feel without minimizing, justifying, or skipping past it.
Not just “I’m fine” or “I’m anxious,” but “I feel ignored,” “I feel trapped,” “I’m afraid I’ll be too much.”
Self Trust
Learning how to live with yourself in a way that feels honest, steady, and real.
It’s not about never doubting. It’s about returning to your truth, instead of abandoning it to keep the peace.
Values:
Understanding what is important to you, what you like or dislike, your morals, and idols. This may seem like an easy idea, but understanding who YOU are without the influence of others can take time.